Trauma, moral relativism, philosophy and science lessons…..

“Simple stories when they are right actually give us only a small or partial explanation of the complex, big (ger) problem…. they undermine the complete stories, that could lead to change… if we need to build a just and peaceful world, we need to resist the simple stories…. undrstand the world in its rich, messy complexity” (Bonya Ahmed, TED talk)

During a course on counseling culturally diverse populations, almost a decade ago, our lecturer presented us with case studies to elicit responses on how one could go about providing counseling when working with culturally diverse populations, especially, in situations where our beliefs around issues like abuse, violence and oppression against women and children, for instance, clashes with what is acceptable or is sanctioned as right and as upholding traditional role structures within another culture. I was assigned a case where a teenage girl had been violently assaulted to the point of hospitalization by male members of her family. It was not an easy case because there were many threads to consider. My arguments included a human rights perspective, the need for empathic identification, and also, the need to discern the boundaries between respect for cultural diversity and tradition and a consideration of human rights and objective truths. I argued that there are experiences, which are objectively highly traumatizing and life degrading irrespectively of the sociocultural contexts in which they occur in, and that we need to also explore the potential consequences on people of certain practices and actions However, both the lecturer and many of my much younger colleagues (I was a mature student) supported the relativist view that what is moral and ethical depends on the culture and the individual.

This experience has arisen in my mind as I have been reading Stephen Law’s book, The Xmas Files: The Philosophy of Christmas (2011), in which among other things he discusses moral relativism. Relativism is the view that what’s true for one individual or culture may not necessarily be true for another and that there’s no absolute moral truth, just differing opinions, all of which are equally valid. There are references in the book on the growing influence of relativist thinking, particularly in schools and universities. Law discusses how, setting aside the fact that people can hold and justify diverse points of view we can still discern which point of view is objectively correct. Law also mentions that the relativist is correct that we should in many cases respect those whose opinions on moral issues differ from our own, acknowledge that we’re fallible and that our views may not always be right, and not assume that we have nothing to learn from other people; however, we can still embrace tolerance, open-mindedness and freedom without embracing moral relativism. He adds that relativism has, according to many thinkers, become the dominant ‘politically correct’ philosophy in the West. He cites the American academic Allan Bloom, who writes that ‘there is one thing a professor can be absolutely certain of: almost every student entering university believes, or says he believes, that truth is relative’ and Marianne Talbot, a lecturer in philosophy at Oxford, who reports that her students ‘have been taught to think their opinion is no better than anyone else’s, that there is no truth, only truth-for-me. I come across this relativist view constantly – in exams, in discussion and in tutorials – and I find it frightening: to question it amounts, in the eyes of the young, to the belief that it is permissible to impose your views on others.’

Law also warns against ‘muddling relativism and liberalism’ and of the dangers of authoritarianism in education. He cites Graham Haydon, a lecturer in philosophy of education, who also warns of the perils of getting children to adopt an attitude of deference to authority and tradition as a remedy perhaps to moral relativism:

“It still must be said forcefully that accepting uncritically what someone tells you because they are seen to be in authority is not a good thing … Doing what is right cannot be a matter of doing what one is told. Schools must produce people who are able to think for themselves what is right..…   Any pupil who is being taught to think ought to be asking such questions. And the same pupil ought to see that ‘Because I say so’ is not an acceptable answer. Nor is ‘because these are the values of your society.’ So, it seems to me that rather than adopting a relativist approach, which suggests that all moral points of view are equally true or a rigid, authoritarian approach that discourages questioning, a more empowering approach might be to encourage people from a young age to engage in working out what those objective moral facts are.

This would probably require a different kind of education where students would be encouraged from a young age to engage in philosophical and moral questions. Reading philosophy and evaluating ideas could make students both aware of a variety of belief systems, and also, more critical and able to evaluate ideas and beliefs and see what works. In an interview Law said: “I’ve always been struck by how philosophically minded children are….They ask questions and they get an answer, and behind that answer they find another question to ask, and it doesn’t take long before they’re starting to question some of our most basic and fundamental beliefs. If you repeatedly ask ‘Why?’, it’s not long before you’re really hitting philosophical bedrock.” So, encouraging children and young people to engage in philosophy is one way of getting them to think critically and independently about the fundamental cultural, moral and religious beliefs they bring into the classroom, which in turn can help raise autonomous critical thinkers that can also rely on their own intellects.

Speaking of education and raising more autonomous and critical thinkers, also brings forward the importance of fostering a love for science and learning in all children. Alice Roberts says: “I sincerely believe that learning is something that most people genuinely do enjoy. It’s a basic human characteristic. If you go into primary schools, you can see just how enthusiastic the kids are about just about everything – how excited they are with each new discovery. If they get turned off by the time they are taking their GCSEs – and that seems to happen to a worryingly large number of them – then it’s almost certainly because of something we are or aren’t doing in schools.” Meanwhile, I have been watching Alice Roberts and Aoife McLysaght’s Christmas science and anatomy lectures about human evolution, our human origins, what makes humans human and what makes every person a unique individual, and the BBC series with Alice Roberts, The Incredible Human Journey.

Sharing a few links below:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bBgnqVLQm5s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U51GKNMAwrA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o3xNlReJPvE&list=PLXerZe6mHN2ccGUUgse7MamPq4dsAE3yk&index=16&t=0s    &    http://www.infocobuild.com/books-and-films/social-science/the-incredible-human-journey.html

Intellectual black holes

An October painting and article

One’s attempt to reckon with one’s lived experiences at a certain point in one’s life or one’s effort to heal from trauma and loss is often a lengthy and sometimes rocky process, more so in the absence of a support group rooted in a value system that supports change, clarity and freedom of thought and expression. As one disrupts silence and sets out to understand and tackle loss or / and injustice one soon realizes that each small or deeper personal wound and injustice latches onto a broader societal or cultural dysfunction. Then one realizes that increasing self awareness and waking up to more reality are not necessarily synonymous to healing and recovery from post traumatic effects, and yet healing does not take place in the absence of some level of clarity and capacity to situate one’s experience within the broader  sociocultural context. Stephen Batchelor says “When we wake up from sleep we return to our-life-as-it-is, not as we dream it. Waking up can also be the realization that one is caught up in one’s own views or reactivity and not seeing or responding to things-as-they-are.” As it were the journey to one’s Ithaca contains ample rabbit holes to tumble down and many more intellectual black holes to get sucked up in.

In today’s lengthy post I will touch a bit on the intellectual black holes we may all (those us who acknowledge that we have been traumatized, oppressed and conditioned and the rest of us) at times, to one extent or another, get sucked into, taking into consideration how much information is out there and how we may not always be alert to or aware of strategies used to influence people’s choices, views and their interpretations of experiences. Today’s topic is something I have been meaning to write about for a while. As I have now almost completed the recycling process (over many months) of piles of journals I have been keeping over the last fifteen years or so, and also, have been evaluating the many podcasts and books I have consumed along the journey, the need to write this piece became more salient. Going through all this material and my recorded observations brought the journey and new insights into focus again. As it seems both understanding and healing occur in layers, and thus, the learning process can be a mix of acquisition of valuable and useful knowledge, and also, encounters with intellectual black holes. Finally, I will be using Stephen Law’s book as a basic resource in order to organize this lengthy piece and make my points as brief and succinct as possible. Law provides a lot of examples to support his arguments in his book, which I will not go into depth here. My intention in this post is to mostly bring awareness to the mechanisms because I think that understanding these strategies can make it easier for us to apply critical thinking and discern when these mechanisms are employed during transactions, political debates, educational or religious contexts, conversations, and so on.

In his book, Believing Bullshit (2011), Stephen Law identifies eight key mechanisms that can potentially transform ideas into a psychological fly trap, which is a bubble of belief that is seductively easy to enter and maybe impossible to think your way out of again. He calls these sets of beliefs intellectual black holes and he writes “Cosmologists talk about black holes, objects so gravitationally powerful that nothing, not even light, can break away from them. Unwary space travelers passing too close to a black hole will find themselves sucked in. An increasingly powerful motor is required to resist its pull, until eventually one passes the “event horizon” and escape becomes impossible. My suggestion is that our contemporary cultural landscape contains, if you like, numerous Intellectual Black Holes— belief systems constructed in such a way that unwary passersby can find themselves similarly drawn in. While those of us lacking robust intellectual and other psychological defenses are most easily trapped, we’re all potentially vulnerable.” As I mentioned there is a lot of information out there and so many people vying for our attention. How many of us are fully immune and adequately skeptical? How many of us are fully present and aware of our buttons, have robust intellectual and psychological defenses, and also, are free of early cultural training or conditioning? To what extent are we immune to the media, the news, other authorities and cultural lies?

Stephen Law refers to eight belief-inducing mechanisms, which he calls: Playing the Mystery Card; “But It Fits!” and The Blunderbuss; Going Nuclear; Moving the Semantic Goalposts; “I Just Know!”; Pseudoprofundity; Piling Up the Anecdotes and Pressing Your Buttons. He believes that Intellectual Black Holes can exist without causing great harm, but they can also be dangerous. The effects of being sucked into these holes lie on a continuum. There are plenty historical examples of desperate youths that have been convinced to commit suicidal terrorist actions believing in an afterlife paradise or people idolizing and blindly following leaders of inhumane and oppressive regimes or supporting leaders’ decisions to embark on wars. More commonly, intellectual Black Holes can allow people to be pushed around or taken advantage of financially. Law writes: “Indeed, they are big business. But victims can be taken advantage of in other ways too. Intellectual Black Holes can also lead people to waste their lives.” He mentions that people may get sucked into intellectual black holes even though in other areas of their lives they may be cautious, subject claims to critical scrutiny and weigh evidence.

Law clarifies that Intellectual Black Holes lie at the end of a continuum and that almost all of us may engage in some of these eight strategies to some extent, particularly when beliefs to which we are strongly committed to are faced with a rational threat. However, he suggests that what transforms a belief system into a Black Hole is the extent to which we rely on such mechanisms when we try to deal with intellectual threats or we want to generate an appearance of reasonableness. He also discusses a few possible reasons why we are prone to getting sucked up in intellectual black holes to begin with. For instance, he refers to a theory that suggests we have evolved to be overly sensitive to agency because we evolved in an environment that contained many agents from family members to friends to rival tribes to predators. Being aware of other agents helped us survive and reproduce. So we evolved to be oversensitive to them. We hear a sound behind us and our subcortical brain lights up and we instinctively turn round, looking for an agent. Most times, there’s no one there, but in the few cases that there were a tiger in the bushes our vigilance would have saved our lives. It is similar to our evolved negativity bias. He suggests that this evolutionary view of things could partly explain our tendency to believe in the existence of invisible agents, which then can make us susceptible to believing others’ often unfounded claims. Law also refers to the theory of cognitive dissonance, which could explain our propensity to use the eight strategies described in his book. Dissonance is the psychological discomfort we feel when we hold conflicting beliefs and attitudes. It is suggested that we are motivated to reduce dissonance by adjusting our beliefs and attitudes or rationalizing them so that we may deal with the discomfort that the dissonance causes us. So Law says that this psychological defense in some sense may allow us to convince ourselves and others through applying the eight mechanisms that our beliefs in the healing power of crystals, for instance, is not contrary to reason, even though research has proven otherwise. Or we might believe that unicorns roamed the earth even though we can establish beyond reasonable doubt that unicorns probably never inhabited the earth because one would expect to find evidence of their presence, such as fossils of them or of closely related animals from which unicorns might have evolved.

Through applying these strategies we could, for instance, convince ourselves or persuade others that oppression, cruelty or poverty at a grand scale in the world are part of some grand scheme and those who suffer the most will be rewarded in an afterlife. Thinking that our belief system is the result of it being the only truth or maybe our being the chosen warriors or whatever, can lull our consciousness, soothe our despair and fear, distract us from tangible problems, and often justify persecution of others that hold a different worldview This kind of thinking has political implications, as well, because our belief systems can support particular economical and political systems. Questioning established opinions and beliefs can in many countries get people killed, whereas, in other more democratic societies people may experience assaults and marginalization. Another reason we may take up certain sets of beliefs is that even though science has progressed, and many of the supernatural agents that were invoked to explain natural phenomena have received plausible naturalistic explanations, there will probably always be questions science cannot answer, and therefore, it is often tempting to invoke some supernatural agent to explain that which we cannot yet understand or that which may be unknowable.

In brief, the eight mechanisms discussed in this book are:

Playing the Mystery Card, which involves immunizing our beliefs against refutation by making unjustified appeals to mystery. Law writes that one way someone might deal with any scientific evidence against their paranormal beliefs or claims might be by insisting, without justification, that what one believes is “beyond the ability of science to decide” or accusing someone of scientism, which is the idea that science can answer every possible question. Law writes: “Actually, few scientists embrace scientism. Most accept that there may well be questions science cannot answer. Take moral questions, for example…. the philosopher David Hume famously noted, that science ultimately reveals only what is the case; it cannot tell us what we morally ought or ought not to do. Nor, it would seem, can science explain why the universe itself exists— why there is anything at all. Scientific explanations involve appealing to natural causes or laws.” So a scientist can explain why water freezes, but not why there is a natural world in the first place. So, if there are questions that extend beyond its domain, then when the credibility of what someone believes is under scientific threat and rational scrutiny by applying this strategy one can a priori protect it by suggesting that it is simply something science cannot explain. He does however, clarify that mystery is no bad thing and that pointing out mysteries can be a valuable exercise in firing up our curiosity and getting us to engage our intellects, and also, that there is nothing wrong with acknowledging that some things may remain a mystery or be in principle unknowable.

“But It Fits!” involves coming up with ways of making evidence and theory “fit”. In the book Law proves that any theory, no matter how absurd, can be made consistent with the evidence. He even provides a fictional example of a theory about dogs being Venusian spies. He writes that “any belief, no matter how ludicrous, can be made consistent with the available evidence, given a little patience and ingenuity.” Law also refers to The Veil Analogy, which is when someone suggests that the observable, scientifically investigable world is not all there is and that there is a further mysterious reality hidden from us, as if behind a veil and that only some of us can glimpse behind the curtain. Using the above mechanisms people attempt to make their claims and beliefs immune to any kind of rational or scientific refutation. At a different level this kind of immunizing strategy can often be combined with an attack on the character of the critic or the person holding a differing view. Law expands on how in order for a theory to be strongly confirmed by the evidence, at least three conditions must be met. The theory must make predictions that are: clear and precise, surprising, and true. Additionally, a scientific theory requires if it is to be credible to be both consistent and strongly confirmed by the evidence. One example of a theory that can be strongly confirmed would be the theory of evolution. Apart from the scientific method he also suggests the use of conceptual and empirical refutation, which is based on natural observation. People have been using this method for millennia, long before the development of refined and specialized tools known as the scientific method to deal with claims. So, it might be wise to rely on scientific information, and to use our senses, observational skills and critical thinking before we get sucked into worldviews, ideas, claims and beliefs. It is also wise to be aware of the strategies used to influence people, the power of suggestion and the placebo effect. Coming back to the harm that Intellectual Black Holes can cause I will mention one example concerning education from the book. Law claims that his central criticism to teaching non scientific theories about our evolution as a species involves teaching children to think “in ways that, under other circumstances, might justifiably lead us to suspect the thinker is suffering from some sort of mental illness….. We run not only the risk that children will end up believing ridiculous falsehoods, which is bad enough, but, worse still, that they’ll end up supposing that the kind of warped and convoluted mental gymnastics…..is actually cogent scientific thinking. We may end up corrupting not just what they think but, more important, how they think.”

Going Nuclear” involves exploding a skeptical or relativist philosophical argument that appears to bring all beliefs down to the same level, rationally speaking. Law writes “Going Nuclear is an attempt to unleash an argument that lays waste to every position, bringing them all down to the same level of “reasonableness.” He describes it as utterly annihilating the rationality of every belief. All positions, no matter how sensible or ludicrous, come out as equally irrational or rational. Of course, those who use this strategy rely on reason in their daily life, and also, to make their own case, and they only reach for the nuclear button when they are confronted with rational arguments against their own beliefs. As he points out all strategies are used selectively when in need. Spending too much time with people who use this tactic extensively can bring about helplessness. Related to this strategy is the belief that there is no objective Truth with a capital “T”, but rather, truth is always our own construction. Law writes: “In its simplest form, this sort of relativism says that what is true is what the individual believes to be true.” So, suppose I believe we are visited by aliens or fairies, then, according to such a relativist, it is true, and if you believe we are not, then for you it’s true that we’re not. Law explains that there are certainly a few beliefs for which it might actually be true. He provides an example of wichitee grubs, the large larvae eaten live by some aboriginal Australians, who consider the grubs a delicacy. Most Westerners, on the other hand would find them revolting. In this case there might be no truth with a capital T because the property of being delicious is ultimately rooted not objectively in the grubs themselves, but rather in our subjective reaction to them.

Law also discusses what we might call the Disney theory of truth. Here there is a switch from the view that reality is what we want to believe it to be to the view that the truth is what we want it to be. In order to make something come true, we need only wish for it (on a star, perhaps). Some common statements reflecting these views might be “life doesn’t happen to us. We make it happen” Or “reality is not what we perceive or believe it to be but what we want it to be.” He asks the question: “Before Copernicus, was it true that the sun really went around the earth, because that’s how it looked to people? Had Neil Armstrong and enough others believed the moon was made of cheese, might the Eagle have landed on a sea of Camembert? Most of us would answer, No. He comments that relativism offers a useful get-out-of-jail-free card when one find themselves cornered in an argument.

Moving the Semantic Goalposts involves dodging possible refutations by switching back and forth between meanings. This strategy relies on seesawing between two meanings of an expression, and also, seesawing back and forth between opinion stating and non-opinion stating and using language to suit oneself. Law provides lengthy examples of employing this strategy that people use, especially, to support religious beliefs and theories.

“I Just Know!” involves suggesting that the truth of your belief has somehow been revealed to you, by, for example, “some sort of a psychic or god-sensing faculty (this suggestion is unreasonable if you are aware of grounds for supposing that at least a large proportion of these supposedly revelatory experiences are, in fact, delusional).” He explains that it’s been suggested that our gut feelings can be insightful and “I just know!” can definitely be an appropriate response.  We all go with our gut, intuition, or instinct on occasion and sometimes, it’s unavoidable when for example we don’t have enough information or we are uncertain or there’s an emergency. However, it can, when used as a strategy, allow for anything to be claimed as true. He provides a vignette relevant to George Bush. He writes: “…none of this is to say that it’s sensible to go with your gut feeling when you don’t need to because, say, there’s ample and decisive evidence available. We are also ill advised to place much confidence in the instincts of someone whose particular gut has a poor track record, or on topics on which we know that gut feeling has generally proven unreliable….. Bush was distrustful of book learning and those with established expertise in a given area. When he made the decision to invade Iraq, and was subsequently confronted by a skeptical audience, Bush said that ultimately, he just knew in his gut that invading was the right thing to do…… How did Bush suppose his gut was able to steer the ship of state? He supposed it was functioning as a sort of God-sensing faculty. ..”

In this chapter of the book Law discusses what knowledge is, the strengths and weaknesses of Plato’s understanding of what it means to know, of evidentialism and reliabilism, Reliabilism, in addition to Plato’s prerequisites of knowing, asserts that someone’s belief must be brought about via a reliable mechanism. A reliable mechanism is a mechanism that tends to produce true beliefs. An example of a fairly reliable mechanism is our knowing through our sense of sight, smell, etc.  It allows us to fairly reliably track how things are in our environment, though he does make a point of how in a let’s say fictional laboratory setting where people have compelling visual hallucinations (about fruit in this case) our reliance on our sight might not be a wise idea. In such an environment we should remain skeptical and aware of our experiences. He goes on to suggest if there is plenty evidence to suggest that many religious experiences or other experiences claimed by some psychics at least are delusional or fake then we should be skeptical about our own and others’ similar experiences or psychic claims and not take them at face value, no matter how compelling they might be.  I could add that such experiences could be undeciphered unconscious material or the result of unmetabolized old conditioning. Also, experiences are often shaped by our cultural expectations and by the power of suggestion. Law suggests that certain activities and experiences might have a marked psychological effect, produce some interesting, and possibly beneficial, psychological states like peace and contentment, and also, help us gain some valuable insights into ourselves and the human condition. But if we mix in the power of suggestion people could interpret their experience in many ways; however, interpretations may not necessarily bring about genuine insight into reality or mean that one has become attuned to some sort of ineffable transcendence,

Pseudoprofundity is the art used by many of making the trite, false or the nonsensical appear both true and deep. Law writes: “Pseudoprofundity is the art of sounding profound while talking nonsense. Unlike the art of actually being profound, the art of sounding profound is not particularly difficult to master. As we’ll see, there are certain basic recipes that can produce fairly convincing results— good enough to convince others, and perhaps even yourself, that you have gained some sort of profound insight into the human condition.”  He suggests that this technique works best if pronouncements focus on life’s big themes. Some examples from his book: We were all children once. Money can’t buy you love. Death is unavoidable.

A second technique is to select words with opposite or incompatible meanings and cryptically combine them in what appears to be a straightforward contradiction. Because such sentences are interpretable in all sorts of ways and because they can easily appear profound. Some examples from his book: Sanity is just another kind of madness. Life is often a form of death. The ordinary is extraordinary.

A third recipe for generating Pseudoprofundity, identified by philosopher Daniel Dennett is the deepity, which involves saying something with two meanings, one trivially true, the other profound sounding but false or nonsensical, like for instance, “Love is just a word.” So, Law explains: “the sentence is trivially true. On the other reading, the sentence is not about the word love but love itself— that which the word love refers to. Love is often defined as a feeling or emotion. Love may even, arguably, be an illusion. But the one thing it definitely isn’t is a word. So on this second reading, “Love is just a word” is obviously false.”

A fourth technique is using jargon. Law writes: “Whether you’re a business guru, lifestyle consultant, or mystic, introducing some jargon can further enhance the illusion of profundity…. For example, don’t talk about people being sad or happy; talk about them having “negative or positive attitudinal orientations.” Next, translate some truisms into your new vocabulary. Take the trite observation that happy people tend to make other people feel happier. That can be recast as “positive attitudinal orientations have high transferability.”

Another technique involves using science and scientific terms. He writes that “references to quantum mechanics are particularly popular among peddlers of pseudoscientific claptrap. Quantum mechanics is widely supposed to make weird claims, and hardly anyone understands it, so if you start spouting references to it in support of your own bizarre teachings, people will assume you must be very clever and probably won’t realize that you are, in fact, just bullshitting.” He continues “In 1997, Alan Sokal, a professor of physics at New York University…. annoyed with the way in which some postmodern writers were borrowing terms and theories from physics and applying them in a nonsensical way, published, along with his colleague Jean Bricmont, the book Intellectual Impostures. Impostures carefully and often hilariously exposes the scientific jargon– fueled nonsense of various intellectuals writing in this vein…… Intellectual Impostures followed the “Sokal Hoax” in 1996. Sokal submitted to the fashionable postmodern journal Social Text an essay packed full of pretentious-sounding, pseudoscientific claptrap.” This publication became an “Emperor’s New Clothes” moment.

Piling Up the Anecdotes. Law says that anecdotes are in most cases almost entirely worthless as evidence, particularly in support of supernatural claims, but they can be persuasive, especially when collected together. Another popular type of narrative involves interpreting coincidence in all sorts of ways, even though coincidences are inevitable. As Law says “There are billions of people living on this planet, each experiencing thousands of events each day. Inevitably, some of them are going to experience some really remarkable coincidences. Such coincidences will be thrown up by chance. The odds of flipping a coin and getting a run of ten heads by chance is very low if you flip the coin only ten times. But if billions of people do the same thing, it becomes very likely indeed that a run of ten heads will occur. Such coincidences can easily generate the appearance of supernatural activity.”

Consider the psychic claims concerning phone-ringing episodes.  (Example from book): “I know I’m psychic. For example, last week I was thinking about Aunt Sue, whom I hadn’t talked to for ages, when the phone rang.” However, every now and again we will meet or hear from people we have been thinking about. We fail to consider all the times that we have been thinking of other people, but have neither bumped into them nor heard from them. Or consider stories of spontaneous remission attributed to supernatural causes. Law writes that “interestingly, reports of “miraculous” medical recoveries tend to be largely restricted to the kinds of cases in which such spontaneous remission is known to occur …..” We also tend to remember the hits or successes, but not all the times something has failed. We remember the cases that support a belief, and ignore those that don’t. This is called confirmation bias. Law sites Francis Bacon, a pivotal figure in the development of the scientific method, who once said, “The general root of superstition is that men observe when things hit, and not when they miss; and commit to memory the one, and forget and pass over the other.”

Coincidence and the power of suggestion account for things like sightings of monsters in lakes (e.g. The Loch Ness monster). All sorts of shapes can be created in the water by floating wood, fish, otters, the wind, and so on. Like the shapes we see in clouds some of this activity may resemble a dinosaur or a monster. If we are primed through stories and beliefs to expect to see a monster, then a few people will probably report sightings of monsters. The power of suggestion is also illustrated by Kenneth Arnold’s famous sighting of the first flying saucer back in 1963, while he was flying his light plane. On landing, he reported unidentified flying objects, but the news media picked up the story and, soon after, many people were reporting the saucer-shaped objects in the sky. Law writes:” But here’s the thing— Arnold did not report seeing flying saucers. What Arnold said he saw were boomerang-shaped craft that bobbed up and down, somewhat like a saucer would do if skimmed across a lake.” Then finally, a photographer looked through his long telephoto lens and said, “Yep … that’s the planet Venus alright.”

But it’s not just perception that can be led astray by the power of suggestion. In the book there is mention of the well known psychologist, Jean Piaget, who had an early memory of nearly being kidnapped at the age of two while being walked in his pram by his nurse: However, when Piaget was about fifteen, his family received a letter in which the nurse admitted that the story she had told was false. So Piaget’s memory was the memory of the story being told. Law writes that “studies reveal that in somewhere between 18 and 37 percent of subjects, researchers can successfully “implant” false memories of events…”

Pressing Your Buttons involves reliance on certain kinds of non-truth-sensitive techniques for shaping belief, Isolation, control, uncertainty, repetition, and emotion can play a major role in producing and sustaining an Intellectual Black Hole:. Law writes these techniques if applied in a consistent and systematic way, amount to brainwashing and they are a mainstay of the “educational” programs of many cults and totalitarian regimes. Beliefs can also be shaped through the use of reward and punishment. He writes that someone may, for instance, influence the beliefs of children by giving them a sweet whenever they express the approved kind of beliefs, and by ignoring or punishing them when they expresses the “wrong” sort of belief. Some of this early transmission of attitudes and beliefs may be part of our adult implicit and explicit beliefs and biases.

According to Law, isolation is a useful belief-shaping tool. An isolated individual is more vulnerable to various forms of psychological manipulation. A related mechanism is control. If you want people to accept your belief system, you need to gain control over the kind of ideas to which they are exposed to and have access to, and censor and discredit or raise doubt about beliefs and ideas that threaten to undermine your own. Oppressive regimes, but also schools and other institutes can employ these strategies to one extent or another. Mindless repetition instead of critical thinking are also encouraged or reinforced and any sense of meaning, purpose, and belonging is preferably derived from one’s belonging to their system of belief. Emotions are often manipulated to shape beliefs, fear in particular. Of course, as one can understand, these mechanisms are particularly potent when applied to children and young adults, whose critical defenses are weak, and who more easily accept whatever they are told.

He supports that we can also use emotional manipulation, peer pressure, censorship, and so on to induce beliefs that happen to be true, and that the extent to which we shape the beliefs of others by pressing their buttons, rather than by relying on rational means, is often a matter of degree. There’s a sliding scale of reliance on non-truth-sensitive mechanisms, with brainwashing located at the far end of the scale. He writes: “There’s clearly a world of difference between, on the one hand, the parent who tries to give her child access to a wide range of religious and political points of views; who encourages her child to think, question, and value reason; and who allows her child to befriend children with different beliefs; and, on the other hand, the parent who deliberately isolates her child, who ensures her child has access only to ideas of which the parent approves, who demands formal recitation of certain beliefs, who allows her child to befriend children who share the same beliefs, and so on.”

Law concludes that “there’s at least one very obvious and important difference between the use of reason to persuade and the use of these kinds of belief-shaping techniques. Reason is truth sensitive. It favors true beliefs over false beliefs…… Reason functions, in effect, as a filter on false beliefs….. it’s not 100 percent reliable, of course— false beliefs can still get through. But it does tend to weed out false beliefs. There are innumerable beliefs out there that might end up lodging in your head, from the belief that Paris is the capital of France to the belief that the earth is ruled by alien lizard-people. Apply your filter of reason, and only those with a fair chance of being true will get through. Turn your filter off, and your head will soon fill up with nonsense.” Finally, he writes that when we rely on reason to try to influence the beliefs of others, we respect their freedom to make or fail to make a rational decision. Whereas, when we resort to pressing their buttons we are stripping them of that freedom and we have rendered them our puppet. The button-pressing strategy is, in essence, a dehumanizing approach.

Morality

‘Any such [good] life would have two general characteristics: that it feels good to live, and that it is more beneficial than not on its impact on others.’ A C Grayling

This post today has come about as a result of my previous post on microaggressions, my cycling back and re-exploring and expanding on ideas and past readings around morality, and also, a recent text on bullying by Rick Hanson in his weekly newsletter, Just One Thing. Summarily, his article focuses on the social nature of our species, how power is a major thread woven in all our relationships and how power can often be abused and misused. He uses bullying as a general and more common term to refer to various forms of abuse of power, which can consist of intimidation, discrimination, oppression, tyranny, and so on. He goes on to say that bullying creates a vast amount of suffering and is present in homes, playgrounds, work places, all the way up to the halls of power. He writes that bullies are dominating defensive and deceptive and are valued and supported by enablers at all levels of society and that bullying is fostered by underlying conditions. He mentions ways of protecting oneself and of understanding what might be going on in the bully or enabler’s inner world. He writes: “Deep down, the mind of a bully is like a hell realm of fended-off feelings of weakness and shame always threatening to invade. Lots of suffering there. Compassion for a bully is not approval. It can be calming and strengthening for you.” He lists possible ways of dealing with bullies and enablers at different levels of society: name the bullying for what it is; dispute false claims of legitimacy; laugh at bullies; confront lies, including denial of harms they’re doing; build up sources of power to challenge the bully; confront enablers; they’re complicit in bullying; engage the legal system; remove bullies from positions of power ….

‘All men have a mind which cannot bear to see the sufferings of others… When men suddenly see a child about to fall into a well, they will all experience a feeling of alarm and distress… to be without this distress is not human … Since we all have [this principle and others] in ourselves…Let them have their full development, and they will suffice to love and protect all [within] the four seas…’ Meng Tzu

As a species we have a natural ability to empathize with and take care of each other and we are capable of kindness, collaboration, friendship and love. We are both biological beings defined by biological and physical laws, and also, conscious beings with purpose and agency to one degree or other, depending on our individual differences and circumstances. Our innate curiosity and our capacity to reason motivate us to make discoveries about our world. Consciousness allows us to understand the world around us and ask questions about it, and gives us the potential to become the authors of our own lives and to be moral beings. This is not to say that we are not also capable of great ignorance and cruelty (we don’t have to look hard to find examples of deep inhumanity at a large scale across time all over the globe). But we do have the potential as a species to embrace living the one life that we have to the full, and also, to recognise  that we are not alone in having one chance at life or desiring to be safe, to fulfill our potential and decrease our suffering. In recognising this we can choose to live in a way that not only celebrates our own precious life, but also, promotes the well being of other people and species. We also have the capacity to understand that each of us impacts others’ lives in many ways through our deeds and ideas, both while we are alive and after we have died. The fact that our impact can outlive us creates a responsibility for future generations, and the significance of this becomes apparent when we consider issues, such as, the environmental crisis, deficits of democracy in so many parts of the world, famine and strife, and the continuation of transmission of trauma and oppression at an individual and collective level. Broadening our lens helps us understand that our own happiness, the happiness of our loved ones and the happiness of strangers are to a great extent inseparably woven together. We should consider others because we are naturally social beings and we live in communities and life in any sort of community, from the family outwards, is much healthier and happier if the members are compassionate and co-operative than if they are hostile and aggressive.

Our human experience of empathy and compassion and our moral instincts and values don’t come from somewhere outside of our human nature. Frans de Waal, a Dutch primatologist and ethologist, suggests that two propensities are necessary for moral behaviour that of reciprocity with a sense of justice and empathy and compassion. Actually, in experimental settings many mammals have been found to be able to display both. In experiments rats, elephants, chimpanzees and other animals have displayed collaboration, care, empathy and unselfish behaviours. Many animals display concern about the welfare of others. This capacity for empathy is what has allowed for questions of morality to arise and develop. Without empathy and reason it is difficult to imagine how we could have developed moral codes and systems in the first place. Morality is a product of both our biological and cultural evolution. From an evolutionary perspective our propensity to support and care for others can also be contributed to our survival instincts and the importance of passing on our genes. Kin altruism, which is the love and care we show towards close relatives, which is common amongst mammals, might be the origin of our caring behaviour in general. A second explanation lies in reciprocal altruism, which involves acting in a way that might have a cost to oneself but benefits others, with the expectation that the favor might be returned. Our pro-social behaviours have evolved through both our biological and social history. The fact that we have as a species made it thus far and have created our human civilization and made such progress is largely contributed to our inherent capacity to co-operate, display empathy and a sense of fairness.

However, we have evolved other less desirable impulses like identifying more closely with our in-groups to the exclusion of strangers. Inappropriate biases, prejudices, and fears still hijack us. We can react aggressively when faced with a real or perceived threat. We also have incentives to be greedy, selfish and unfair. However, the conclusion that this is our constant natural state is not necessarily true because our motivations for generosity, reciprocity, altruistic love and kindness are also observed universally and have natural causes. Richard Norman suggests that the answer to the problem of moral motivation also lies in the power of stories. He suggests that ‘If people are not sufficiently motivated by good moral reasons, then the only way to fill that motivational gap is for them to become more deeply aware of the reasons themselves. In the case of other-regarding values such as compassion, justice or honesty, that means becoming more aware of what it is like to be the victim of cruelty or injustice, what it is like to be cheated or betrayed, exploited or enslaved. This greater awareness is generated most powerfully by stories – accounts, whether historical or fictional, of particular individuals, which bring to life the felt experience of suffering and the experience of having that suffering met by good actions.’

As a species we universally share basic needs for food, shelter, and health, the desire to be safe and loved, to be happy and to avoid misery, to be treated with respect and to be free to make independent choices. We also find virtues like compassion, justice, truth and care across the globe. Despite the many political, philosophical and religious differences there is a significant universal agreement about virtues and core values, which are not independent of us, but grounded in our shared nature or common humanity. Our awareness of human needs and core values can provide us with a level of objectivity in terms of what is right and wrong. These core values might be summarized as that which promotes human happiness and decreases suffering and misery. This utilitarian approach highlights the value of consideration and concern for people’s welfare, but since relationships are more complex other values like trust, honesty and loyalty, fairness and justice, autonomy and respect for others’ choices, as long as they don’t impinge on others’ basic rights, need also to be taken into account.

A lot of rules and moral codes are handed down to us and often they reflect a belief systems of separation and power over; however a moral compass based on our interconnectedness with all living things would serve more people and the planet at large. Ethical or moral behaviour requires responsibility and critical thinking on our part. Some might argue that the best thing to do is to appeal to authority. Sometimes, it can be wise to defer to authority without giving up our power, for instance, if we are looking for medical or legal advice; however, in the case of moral decisions, simply following authority unquestioningly does not necessarily guarantee that we will act morally and it can also lead to disastrous consequences. Consider what has happened historically when people have trusted and blindly followed people in leadership with destructive ideologies and motives.

In The War for Children’s Minds Stephen Law considers the case of an individual who asks a moral authority figure how they should treat someone who does not share their beliefs and is advised to commit a violent act. In accepting rules and commandments unquestioningly we can sometimes be rendered as children by authority. We need to think for ourselves and examine any moral guidance we are given, and decide whether or not to follow instructions given to us by others. This does not mean that rules cannot be helpful. Agreeing collectively to sign up to certain rules related to stealing, lying, harming others and killing is beneficial for society in large. Our freedoms should be constrained for the good of society; however, our freedom and our education should not be restricted to the extent that we are unable to think for ourselves or make our own moral judgments. If there are laws that are unjust or favor one group over another or allow discrimination we should have the right to argue the case for changing them. Education has a role to play and drawing on the wisdom of others can facilitate our journey, but we must be encouraged to subject ideas to critical evaluation and argument. Moral autonomy requires self-awareness of our rights, freedom and responsibility and it can be intimidating and difficult because it requires knowledge, presence and consciousness. Healing of our traumas and conditioning and a moral education that does not encourage passive, uncritical acceptance of any particular moral teaching, but focuses on developing the intellectual and emotional skills necessary to consider consequences and make moral decisions is a better option.

Also, because our moral systems, like any other human construct, can be flawed constructs they need to be reviewed and recreated in the light of new developments in human understanding. Scientific reasoning can reveal new facts about the world that can inform our morality. One salient example is that of slavery. Scientific reasoning has shown that slavery cannot be defended on the claim that human beings can be divided into different species. In The War for Children’s Minds, Stephen Law writes that ‘Reason alone may be incapable of determining right and wrong, but that is not to say that establishing what is right and wrong has nothing to do with reason.’ Additionally, reason alone cannot motivate us morally because we cannot, for instance, support other people to flourish if we are unable to imagine what it might be like to be them, and so we return to empathy. Most human beings can develop empathy. Imaginative and sympathetic identification with the happiness and sufferings of other humans can motivate us to be kind and generous to others as we can imagine how we would wish to be treated. Applying the Golden Rule is one basic way of exploring the morality of our actions. As long as we don’t apply this rule according to our own specific preferences and dislikes, but to the general desire to have our interests and rights taken into account could be a good place to start. Interestingly, this code is found throughout different cultures and civilizations from Jainism and Hinduism in India, to Confucius in China, to Christianity, to Buddhism, to Socrates in Ancient Greece, and so on. The development of this inherent mammalian capacity also promotes care for the less fortunate, because we are aware that this is what we would need if we were in their shoes. Being in touch with our empathic nature discourages behaviours like theft, lying, social aggression or bullying because we would not wish to be the recipients of these injustices.

Finally, we need to question the assumption of a deep dividing canyon between the ‘self’ and ‘others’. Imagine a world where everyone was only driven by selfish desires and treating others as mere means to their satisfaction. The whole world would quickly resemble George Orwell’s dystopia, 1984. There would be no sanctuary and safe place. It would be total misery. We would be utterly unsafe, lonely, mistrustful, turned in upon ourselves, and unable to share feelings, dreams, hopes or fears. We need to look at our lives as a whole and recognise the whole range of relationships which make up who we are and give meaning and purpose to our lives. We need to wake up to our interconnectedness, neurobiologically and otherwise. Ultimately, the morally good life is an important dimension of a life well lived, because it is a life that is shared and a life that desires relief of suffering.