July 28th, 2021

Art, a model of the psyche and mind metaphors, and moral harassment         (Edited  – July 30th)

Τέχνη, ένα μοντέλο του ψυχικού μας κόσμου και μεταφορές σχετικά με τον νου, και ηθική παρενόχληση

Art as a kind of homecoming / Η Τέχνη ως επιστροφή

I think it was in 2012 that I decided to take my artwork to the street, especially, on the island where I have lived for the last 35 years. It was a small act of resistance and claiming visibility among other things. Almost a decade later I decided to close a cycle and mount posters of my more recent art in the street again. Eventually however, I opted for exhibiting in one of the local online news websites instead. Below is the accompanying short passage:

Homecoming – Summer 2021

The most important adventure of our lives is discovering who we truly, to know the breadth and depth of ourselves. Most of us will never get the chance to ponder on the question: Who am I really? or on Mary Oliver’s line: “What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” This journey is a slow process that involves shedding layers of experiences and cultural messages that do not serve us in our lives and don’t reflect who we really are, and also, recognizing who we want to be. It is the process of recognizing our vulnerabilities and our personal power, as well as, the dynamics of the contexts we are embedded in. As Janet Louise Stephenson wrote “Authenticity requires a certain measure of vulnerability, transparency and integrity.” The process eventually transforms into a sweet homecoming. There are different paths and ways to navigate this journey, but through creativity and imagination, we find our identity and a reservoir of healing for ourselves and the collective. For me art seems to have been both an intrinsic part of who I am and an important tool that has allowed me to navigate the journey. In the quiet, solitary moments of presence and caring that making art requires, a homecoming to the essence of ourselves and to a sense of belonging to the local and to the whole world, take place. Poet Paul Celan wrote: “Poetry is a sort of homecoming.” These eighteen acrylic paintings are part of a number of paintings I have worked on these last two and a half years. Each one reflects a small step in my own homecoming journey.

Mind metaphors and visual exploration of our mental landscape

Μεταφορές σχετικά με τον νου και διερεύνηση του πνευματικού / ψυχικού τοπίου

I’d also like to refer to some material from Dr Rick Hanson’s last week’s meditation podcast. In this podcast he discusses metaphors of the mind and suggests ways of exploring our mental experience, sub-personalities and different aspects of ourself, through the creation of visual displays of our inner landscape.

One metaphor is that of a committee, another is that of a mansion with sunny rooms, messy ones and the rooms in the basement, where the suppressed, the painful and the implicit material lies. Yet another metaphor is that of a landscape with lakes, rivers, mountains and valleys, deserts, etc. We can engage in drawing or making collages and observing what insights come up. Dr Hanson also presents a visual model of our psyche, which contains three concentric circles.  We develop this structure to survive in the world. The inner most circle could be termed BEING and this is our core, who we truly are, our fundamental nature, a vast awareness, our temperament perhaps, a dynamic and stable sense of who we are, One might expereince this as a central core of unbounded self. Susan McConnell (2020), informed by the IFS model, suggests that “At the core of every individual, when all the extra is peeled away, is this essential loving, creative, wise, courageous state.” The next circle contains what could be termed “the scared or hidden self”, which one might consider as all we have disowned, the non experienced experience, the suppressed and dissociated, the implicit memories. Finally, there is the outer circle, termed ACT, which is what we want to present to the world, who we want to be seen as. It is our persona/s, our presentation to the world in different contexts. Tension exists between these layers of experience or layers of the psyche and healing and growth require integration and communication between the different layers.Rick Hanson (2020) says “One breath at a time, one synapse at a time, you can gradually develop an increasingly unshakable core inside yourself.” The more we grow and heal the less friction there is, and the more often we can reside in a place of authenticity.

Workplace Suffering and Emerging Pathologies

Ταλαιπωρία / Παρενόχληση στο χώρο εργασίας και αναδυόμενες παθολογίες

Finally, I am sharing an extract from an article with the title Workplace Suffering and Emerging Pathologies by Marie-France Hirigoyen (L’information psychiatrique Volume 84, Issue 9, 2008). Dr Marie-France Hirigoyen is a French psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, psychotherapist, victimologist and writer, specializing in moral harassment in diverse contexts, especially, mobbing behaviour in the workplace. She defines moral harassment as the attempt to psychologically annihilate the other with words, gestures, hints without the use of physical violence. I have just started reading two of her books translated into Greek, which I bought locally this summer, which could inform future posts. One is about psychological and emotional abuse of women within familial contexts and the other is about moral harassment and the hidden violence in our daily lives, particularly in work contexts. Read extracts from the article below:

“The Narcissistic Society: The Rise of Individualism and Loneliness

Η Ναρκισσιστική Κοινωνία: Η Άνοδος του Ατομικισμού και της Μοναξιάς

This increase in narcissistic pathologies is explained by the fact that such personalities are well-adapted to the modern world. These changes in the average individual reflect the mutations caused by company life and economic warfare, and are conditioned by the myth of the homo economicus, engaged in a “struggle for life” even at the expense of others. Individualism is a primary characteristic of our time. Until the 1980s, individuals thought of themselves as members of a collective and knew that this collective would support them. Peer groups or trade unions would mediate in conflicts. Today, it’s every man for himself. Relationships of cooperation and solidarity have been eroded, and relationships with institutions have lost their value. Common standards for what counts as good work have become less clear, and a sense of shared values has dissolved. The individual is at the center of the world, but they are alone there – a pawn in a multitude of others just like them. In a world where we are mere clones, everyone wants to be unique. But how does one stand out from the crowd at work? How can a person’s individuality be recognized when their leaders speak with a forked tongue, telling each individual to express their personality, but requiring their employees to fit into a mold? Conflicts, too, are increasingly sidestepped. They no longer manifest themselves at a collective level, but rather at an individual one.……..

Workplace Suffering and Emerging Pathologies What Can Be Done?

Ταλαιπωρία / Παρενόχληση στο χώρο εργασίας και αναδυόμενες παθολογίες. Τι μπορεί να γίνει;

Psychosocial risks are an inescapable problem in occupational health. It is up to psychiatrists, psychologists, sociologists, and specialists in workplace issues to convince business leaders to take concrete measures to monitor and prevent such dangers. There must be help for executives who find themselves responsible when one of their workers is seriously depressed, and even criminally responsible when complaints about harassment are raised. Steering between management by terror and demagogy, it can be difficult for them to establish a management style that is simply respectful of people. ….. Employers have an obligation to protect their employees’ health. The claiming that some employees are merely fragile does not hold: they are simply human, with all the fragility that naturally brings with it……

Conclusions / Συμπεράσματα

The changes people undergo in response to a changing society are irremediable and management must take it into account. If employers want to improve their employees’ morale once more, they must reintroduce respect for the human element into their management practices…….. Boundaries have also shifted. People are being asked to adapt, and even to over adapt. They must be able to rebound from failures, not questioning themselves and attributing responsibility for their mistakes to others. They must cast aside empathy and become aggressive enough to symbolically kill friends and enemies and lie to close a deal. In such a “game,” those with a hypertrophied Self succeed better than others in imposing their will. The degradation of work makes professional success less and less dependent on competence and far more on luck or opportunism. Hard work and good results are no longer enough. One must also make oneself visible, make oneself valued, expand one’s network. Appearance and visibility count for more than results and efficiency. A large address book and a good network count for more than talent. In a world of appearances, what matters is not what we are, but what we show ourselves to be—not the distant consequences of our actions, but their immediate, apparent results. This is the main reason perversion has become widespread: there is a general tendency to treat others as tools to be discarded when they are no longer useful. In addition to direct work pressures, there are much more subtle social pressures: one must be fit, happy, fulfilled, and high-achieving, because individuals are only valued for what they seem to be……. Developing an adaptive “false self” leads people to lose touch with their true inner feelings and to live an existence without authenticity. The race to succeed creates lonely people who are vulnerable to depression. If we want to reduce absences related to mental health problems, we must accept the vulnerabilities of people who cannot be in top form at all times. We must always consider people holistically. ….. The consequence of these changes is that our societies are becoming increasingly unequal: on the one hand, there are those who play the performance game, the unsentimental ones who are able to conceal their feelings or to let nothing affect them; on the other are the sensitive, over fragile ones, who are perpetually discarded (Marie-France Hirigoyen).”

A painting, an ant farm, a lion’s roar, the trance of unworthiness and a newspaper meditation (Edited)

“The practice of meditation, or coming into presence, is described as having two wings. The wing of mindfulness allows us to see what is actually happening in the present moment without judgment. The other wing is heartfulness or love — holding what we see with tenderness and compassion. You might think of it as two questions: What is happening right now? and Can I be with this and regard it with kindness? These are the two wings that we cultivate to be able to wake up out of the trance of unworthiness — out of the spacesuit self — and sense that gold that’s shining through.” Tara Brach, PhD

Today I’m posting the painting I have been working on quite intensively this month, which I am letting go of so that I can hopefully move on to something new next week (currently I have decided to prioritize expressing more ideas and content than spending a great length of months on one artwork).

I am also sharing short extracts from Dr Tara Brach’s new book; Trusting the Gold.

The first extract is a tender story related to ants and her then young son, which reminded me of my own son when he was little. When my son was three I bought him a book with the title: Stories Fom Our House written by Richard Tulloch and illustrated by Julie Vivas. For the next couple of years it was a favourite read. One of these stories was about ants: “The ants came into our house, marching in a line. A long brown line of ants, some of them coming and some of them going ….” We ended up learning most of the stories by heart and leaving a little food outside our house for the ants. Later I used the story to create grammar worksheets to practise past tenses for my son and students.

Tara Brach writes: “When my son, Narayan, turned six, I gave him a gift that I knew would feed his curiosity about the natural world. Called an ant farm, this “kit” provided a view into the activities of living ants. Fascinated, he watched for hours. He named several and followed their efforts as they hurried back and forth, digging a network of tunnels and carrying food to store away. Watching the ant farm together became part of our daily ritual. One day a few weeks later, Narayan arrived home from school deeply upset. On the playground some of the kids had made a game of stepping on ants. He was horrified that they could be hurting, even killing, some of these amazing creatures that he had come to know and admire. We sat down together, and I held him as I explained that his friends didn’t have ant farms so they hadn’t had a chance, like he did, to get to know what ants are really like. I told him that when we pay attention to any living beings, we get to see how they move and relate to each other, how they are hungry, and what they are looking for. We find out that they are real and that, like us, they want to stay alive. As he listened intently, I told him that if his classmates ever paid really close attention to ants, they wouldn’t hurt them anymore. Narayan turned to me and said, “I want to have them all over, so they can meet my ants.”

The next extract is about how she turned reading the newspaper into a meditation.

She writes: “I’d open the newspaper and find myself feeling anger and hostility toward those in government who were beating the drums of war……… I was increasingly aware that the hostility I was feeling in my own mind was actually another form of violence. And yet I needed to stay engaged; I needed to do something, to take some kind of action. Since I wasn’t going to stop reading the newspaper, I decided to make it into a meditation. Each morning I would open the paper, check out the headlines, read a few paragraphs . . . then pause. I’d notice my reactions— the thoughts and feeling of outrage. I’d allow the experience to move in my mind and body, not denying or feeding it, just witnessing the response I was having to the latest reports. I began to see that when I opened to the full force of the anger I was feeling, I could sense within it fear for our world. And as I opened to the fear, it unfolded into grief for the suffering and devastation that was inevitable in war. And out of the grief arose a deep caring for all the beings— humans and animals and trees— that would be harmed by the violence we were moving toward…… By holding my feelings of anger and frustration with “radical acceptance,” I could find my way to the caring that gives rise to wise action. Acceptance of whatever arises in us in the present moment is not a passive act. Rather, this engaged, mindful presence allows us to respond to our world from our deepest compassion and wisdom….”

Finally, I’ll share another little story about my son that came to mind by another piece in the book. After we had watched Lion King enough times, we were intrigued by the lion cub’s attempts to learn to roar and talked about how sometimes we too need, like the little lion, to practise breathing out our own kind of human roar so that we may come into contact with our own voice, strength and courage.

Tara Brach writes: “Let yourself imagine what it would be like to live every day with the Lion’s Roar, trusting that whatever arises, including the greatest losses and the deepest fears, has the potential to awaken wisdom and love.”

Soma / Σώμα   (continued….)

“Our fascia is central to our awareness of our body in space and our awareness of all that is happening inside our body. This connective tissue literally encircles and encases our whole body, connecting, stabilizing, supporting, and protecting the cells, bones, muscles, organs, brain, nerves, arteries, and veins and the entire body as a unit.….. The fascia can be considered to be one of our richest sensory organs. ….. The sensory nerve endings embedded within the fascia contribute to both interoception (how we feel inside ourselves) and proprioception (our awareness of our body in space). So when we “go inside” to find out what is happening in our body, it is the interoceptive capacity of the sensory nerves in our fascia that tells us that our stomach is tight, or our jaw or our toes are clenched, or our back is aching. We use proprioception when we notice our posture, balance, and movement relative to gravity….” Dr Susan McConnell (posted July 5th)

This piece today is related to recent posts and based on Dr Arielle Schwartz’s article, Fascia and the Vagus Nerve. In this article Dr Arielle Schwartz considers how fascia plays a key role in building up resilience and suggests that we can nourish and rehydrate our fascia and the vagus nerve (which plays an important role in communicating changes in fascia to our brain) by attending to our body and mind through sensory awareness, conscious breathing, mindful movement, stretching and massage.

In relation to the vagus nerve, Dr Schwartz writes that we could think of it as a bi-directional information highway between brain and body that helps regulate our autonomic nervous system. Stressful events engage our sympathetic nervous system through the fight or flight responses. The vagus nerve allows us to let go of fight or flight for the purpose of resting, digesting, and bonding with others during times of safety. However, in situations that are traumatic or life threatening, this vagal brake can lead to nausea, dizziness, or fainting. Concerning the fascia, also known as connective tissue, she describes it, as a fibrous web that houses 250 million nerve endings and extends into every structure and system of our body, from superficial layers under our skin and deeper layers that wrap around our bones and muscles. She discusses how fascia provides a nourishing and lubricating layer around our lungs, which intertwines with the layer of fascia around our heart. There is also protective connective tissue around our digestive organs and in our endocrine glands, and thus, it plays a role in transmitting hormones throughout our body. Hardening in the fascia occurs for many reasons: emotional stress; physical injuries; lack of movement; historical traumas. Also, some level of hardening occurs every night during sleep. Overtime if recovery does not take place it can present as chronic pain, systemic inflammation, chronic fatigue syndrome, muscular tension and other problems.

Schwartz writes that physical tension in our muscles and connective tissue is a protective layer, which in somatic psychology is termed “armoring”, and it is held as a form of memory that won’t release until one feels safe. She claims that when our body goes into some kind of shock we either move into freeze (tonic immobility) or faint (collapsed immobility) responses, but when these trauma responses don’t resolve we can lose the capacity to rhythmically expand and contract. In this case fascial “fuzz” can build up and we can lose our connection to our bodily sensations and be more likely to feel disconnected or dissociated. Dr Stephen Porges, who has developed the polyvagal theory, has coined the term neuroception. In brief, neuroception [I have recently referred to this in July 5th post] is the process by which the autonomic nervous system, automatically and without conscious awareness, scans for internal and external cues of threat and responds. This life saving process in times of danger can also heighten stress levels and lead to hypervigilance when trauma is not released. However, we can also engage in conscious neuroception by observing our body for signals that give you feedback about the state of your nervous system. Dr Schwartz writes: “By observing your body, you can determine if you are feeling calm and connected, keyed up in “fight or flight,” feeling frozen or feeling shut down and collapsed. Self-knowledge of your body and mind allows you to engage in strategies that bring you into an optimal zone of nervous system regulation.” Dr Schwartz suggests that if we need to upregulate our nervous system we can engage in movement and breath practices that help mobilization strategies to unwind from chronic freeze or faint responses. We can also explore how it feels to tune into cues of safety that allow us to initiate a “relaxation response.” She writes that when we are in an “optimal zone” of nervous system regulation we feel: more connected to ourself and others; curious about our inner experience and needs; an enhanced sense of clarity; compassionate; creative; joyful; courageous; empowered and confident.